I just saw a video of Pastor Femi Lazarus where he said you should let people you don’t want to lose know they’re important to you.
That’s a big secret to dealing with an overthinker right there!
You see all these “I know that no amount of words I say…” “You already know…” Ogbeni master, I don’t know anything! Say the words! Let me hear it! I promise to accept it anyhow it comes. Just freaking say it to my hearing! Type or write it for me to read, please! Let me have something to gush about. I’m not marking English script, so who goes thou error?
Well, some people have lost really importance people in their lives because they didn’t express it. People leave people for different reasons. Do you even know some people leave your life once they don’t feel important to you?
Asides me being big on impacting lives, I’ve also met people who are same. If I notice someone isn’t adding value to me and I’m also not adding value to the person, I try as much as possible to reduce the closeness- that sometime turns to a stranger string.
And less I skip this- the kind of vibe matcher I am ehnnnn. And the way I so much know how to switch accordingly scares even me.
You fit be the loml today, mae I no send you tomorrow because you don dae show pattern.
During my personality check, most people said my realness without pretense is admirable but two people saw it as a flaw. The fact that I don’t know how to smile at you when I’m angry at you. The fact that you’ll really know if I don’t like you.
…but wait. Is it really a flaw or an admirable strength?
