Have you ever been in a situation where you realized someone you were fighting so hard for was actually the wrong one, as opposed to your initial knowledge? Activism rolling in the mud! Kpele maidia, I’ve been there.
I’m not sure there’s any other way to explain the “feeling of stupidity” other than that. Like you supported the person so well that you could bet your life on it. Everywhere no go blurrr, e go first do you like say make ground open. Forget hardguy tactics — it’s hard to shake off the feeling of being played.
Another imprint such would leave on one is TRUST ISSUE in caps. Tell me how you won’t watch your steps before banking on someone next time, fearing history might repeat itself. That’s where the battle begins — it’s hard to silence the voice that’d keep asking, “What if?”.
If it’s not wickedness, why in hell’s behaviour would someone watch you scream your lungs out for them, knowing they’re guilty? It’s a toxic mix of manipulation and selfishness, leaving you to pick up the pieces.
Now that wind has blown, it’s not only their yansh outside — it’s both of you swimming in the pool of shame. You, for being blind, and them, for being deceitful.
…but are you going to wallow in the shame? As? … because? Who’s never been caught in a net of deceit? Common! It’s time to acknowledge the pain, learn from it, and move forward. Then, remember to watch your steps, but balance it with not letting the past hurt dictate your future.
Till I’m back to stir the drink, stay gbam!
One thing about me is that I won’t interfere in a fight or case without knowing what happened or get to understand the full story. I hate embarrassment so much.
Good for you! Unfortunately, me and 78 others learnt the hard way 💔😂.